In J. Harold Ellens’ book, Sex In The Bible - A New Consideration, we read,
“It has always been easy for people devoted to any Sacred
Scripture to interpret its meanings and metaphors in erroneous ways not
intended by the original writers and readers. Usually this
misinterpretation of scriptures arises out of some human need to use
the authority of Sacred Scriptures to support a private or
institutional, political or religious idea, which the scriptures did
not originally intend but for which we would like to assert an
authoritative claim. This, for example, is what has happened in regard
to sex in the Bible. For the last 20 centuries of Christian history, at
least, there has been a tendency in Western society and culture to
moralize human sexuality in an exaggerated way. At the same time, it
has been our tendency to sexualize morality in a manner that has made
it virtually the only issue of morality of which our society is aware.
“This has resulted in two nearly humorous enigmas. First, it has
split off our real social conduct from our official creed. While the
society and culture make believe that we hold some norm of sexual
decorum, most of the society constantly violates that norm and
standard. Alfred Kinsey’s published research, the work of Masters and
Johnson, and other similar studies, such as The Hite Report, indicate
that approximately three-fourths of both men and women in America
violate the official standards for sexual behavior in our society. Our
super-moralization of sexuality has made us ethical and social
schizophrenics, so to speak.”